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Monday, March 14, 2016

What I Have Learned by Dating Asian Women Online - Dream Holiday Asia

How I get Laid For Free

“You’re going to discover exactly why online dating is a crazy, beautiful world… for having free sex”

I got into dating sites years ago while searching for a solution to meet attractive women while traveling around Asia.

The classic/old system in meet women at bars, clubs and bars wasn’t producing guarantee results (having free sex) and wasting my precious vacation time wasn’t fun, actually it was demoralizing.

Some night I was just getting drunk and head back to the hotel alone, sometime with a phone number and a promised to meet the next day from the girl I just met in the club. This was devastating and ruining my mood, affecting my vacation.

While speaking with a friend of mine about this problem, he told me to use a dating site like AsianDating.com to meet with local women. I was a bit puzzle.

Dating online is only for looser, isn’t it?

“No, no, no…” he quickly assured me, seeing my skepticism. “This isn’t like online dating in Europe. Not at all.”

That day I discover a new way to meet with beautiful girls, get laid for free and without the bullshit.

Girl’s Profile Online

Over the years, I have met so many girls that I have lost the count. It is fun and thrilling to meet new girls with ease and by filtering a selection with a click.

I always search for girls between 20 to 25 years old, slim, no smoking, no kids, these four criteria are mandatory, for the rest I’m flexible.

Online dating sites give you an incredible advantage in searching for the perfect match, only takes a click.

It is so easy that sometime I feel ashamed of myself, but it always better than get drunk lonely in a club.

You will get hundreds of girl’s profile that you will not know where to start. Usually the cover picture is the best, so choose only the hottest one, and be picky.

If you don’t know how to get started dating online, I have wrote down the process step by step with my tips on how to write an impressive profile of yourself to attract the best girls.

My system is been tested for years bringing in great results. I have so many girl’s request, often I have to delete even cute girls, unfortunately my time is limited and can only chat with the hottest one.

I get email from travelers concern about their age and appearance, and I can guarantee that in Asia the rules are different than in the western world.

Asian women look for a nice guy, that can speak politely and cares about his woman, age and appearance are of secondary importance.

I want to share with you, some of my favorite girls and their profile because it is so funny. These girls are so lovely and sometime a bit naive and surprisingly very open.

Britney is lovely girl in her twenties. I found interesting her title “Someone who is loyal and caring.

Someone who loves traveling and spending time with me.”

She was perfect for me because I love to travel. I wrote to her; “where should we go this weekend?”. She immediately replays and after a month we met in Kuala Lumpur.

I stayed with her two days and after i moved on to a new gal. She was sweet and love caring, I felt like to be her Teddy Bear.

Gi is looking for a good man to share her life together, unfortunately she met me first. She was a bit hard to convince to share my hotel room, and took two appointments to close the deal.

However she was worth the effort.

We had a great time together, dining in some good restaurant as we are both passionate about food. She was a great tour guide around Bangkok, very sexy indeed.

On the third day I explain her that I’m not looking for a relationship, at first she got pissed but eventually she understood and we still keep in touch.

Eva is Cambodian on her 25, but she looks younger.

The first time I chat with her on Skype, I felt in love immediately (it lasted only few minutes). She speaks perfect English, and her manners are so feminine and genuine.

She came to Phnom Penh’s airport to pick me up with her car, which was a great surprise.

I spent 10 days with her traveling to Angkor Wat, visiting the most famous temple in Asia and Sihanoukville, relaxing by the beach.

It was sad to say goodbye but I couldn’t stop my mission around Asia.

How to Get The Girls Ready To Have Sex With You

Just tell them! Seriously

Is that simple? Yes, it is.

Many men feel nervous about proposing to a girl to have sex, and it is understandable. Keep in mind an Asian woman can be disappointed if you don’t ask to have sex with her because she might think that you aren’t attract to her.

Regarding having sex with women you meet online, the first step is to ensure that once you will meet her for real, she will open her legs to you.

You don’t want spend hours online chatting with her only to find out that she is a virgin and she will let it go only after marriage.

Few simple steps to make your first date a sex-success:

Let her see you are good man. If she thinks you’re desirable and everything she wants in a great guy, half your work’s cut out for you already.

Let her know you like her. Most Asian women aren’t confident, so they need to hear from you that you like them. Time to time during your online chat, tell her your feelings and how happy you are to have met.

Talk dirty. I stop you immediately; I meant you can talk dirty with her after the third chat, not before (read my tips on how to approach your first chat).
This is important to get the spark build up and let her know that once met, sex isn’t an alternative.Talk about her lingerie, what color she likes and what she would like you to buy for her. Now we go to stage 4.
Buy some kinky underwear. I always travel with my luggage full of underwear. I love to see the girls wearing it and the girls love to show me.
It is a win/win situation.This will clarify the obvious, let’s have sex.
Invite her to your hotel room. You’ve built the sexual tension already. She knows you’re not just a friend, and she definitely knows you’re attracted to her already.
Never show affections in public places in Asia, do all behind the wall. She might seem shy at first, but trust me, she will rock the bedroom.

These simple steps will put you forward to have sex with your online girls, it is a simple but yet a powerful formula.

Make sure to follow all the steps before meet your date in real life.

How Do I know If She Really Like Me

Not all men are interested in only sex, they also want to build a relationship with feelings, long conversations, understanding and love.

The best way to find it out is by listening. Let her talk about herself most of the time, her dreams, future, present and past.

These conversations will give you an understanding with who you are dealing with. So, pay attention to her talks, there is so much true surfacing when you let women talk freely.

Her past is very important, learn what she is been doing in the last years and you will understand in great details what she is after.

What does she want from a relationship? Love, money or family.

Can you offer what she wants? If Yes, she will like you.

You are a man, a man is the provider in the Asian world, and if you can provide her, she will love you. Full STOP.

After your holiday is over, if she tries to contact you online without asking for money, than there is a good chance that she is into you.

If she call you because she need money, usually the stories varies from mama is sick and me lost phone, just delete her from your online profile and move on to a new girl.

I have notice during my years of online pick ups, that every 5 girls you will find one hidden gem.

So, if you are looking for a serious relationship or marriage, I would recommend you to meet at least 5 women during your trip to put chances on your favor.

CONCLUSION

There you have it, meet a girl online, chat her up and have sex with her.

Or build a relationship on steroid to move the relationship forward faster with your exotic woman.

I used to meet women as I go about my vacations because was much more “adventurous”, unfortunately this system was extremely unreliable.

Now I feel like online dating is a wonderful and effective way to connect, proven that offer guarantee results over time.

I have met some really wonderful women on AsianDating.com and ThaiFriendly.com, and I’m confident you will get what you are looking for.

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Sunday, March 6, 2016

Pick Up Tips; Meet Asian Women Online - Dream Holiday Asia

How To Date Asian Girls Online in Simple Steps

“Don’t waste your time and money trying to get a relationship from online dating sites before reading this article”

If you haven’t been dating in a while, if you’re new to dating or if you want to meet the Asian woman of your dream, online dating sites are an excellent step stone forward your intentions. The truth is that online dating is crowded with men, and your chances to get a break throw with an attractive woman are limited if you don’t know the right steps to meet girls online.

This article is representing my experiences with dating site AsianDating.com but it can be apply to other Asian dating website. All the advise is based on what have worked for me, achieving to meet hundreds of girls during the years across Thailand, Malaysia, Philippines, Vietnam, Cambodia and Singapore.

Before starting the actual process of subscribing to a dating site, I want to give you two facts that will help you to achieve success in dating Asian women online.

First, the good news. Asian women really love foreign men. At first I thought this would be something related to money only. But I was wrong. We are as exotic to them as they are to us. I have been complimented on several body features (e.g. long nose, white skin, round eyes) which until then I didn’t thought of.

In fact, my western feature in Europe wouldn’t get the attention of any women, in Asia are a great plus. Your skin is white as snow, in Europe is common and western women prefer bitch boys with tan skin but in Asia you are a super star. Even dating much older men is not a problem to most of the Asian women, actually is a plus because older men are consider reliable and more responsible of younger men.

The second fact. Most men on online dating sites are perverts. It puzzles me that the majority of men would spend his money on a dating site and then send women messages requesting to send her naked pictures or the guy show its dick. Read the real experience of Chelsea, a Korean woman that witness bad experiences on dating sites.

Personally I think that this is just a huge waste of everybody time. No girl will respond to this approach. Think about it: witch girl would think “this guy is good for me or I want have a future together”. No Way. This can be achieve in a second stage when you will have build trust and intimacy.

Luckily this will make it really easy for you, who don’t start their initial approach with “Hey Baby, let’s have some fun”. With this simple tip in mind, you are already on the top 40% of men to be considered.

How to Get Started With Online Dating

First, you should choose a dating site that have your target audience of interest. I personally use AsianDating.com because has the largest network of girls across different countries, and because I travel often around Asia, it suit my need to meet women across the region.

If you are into a certain type of nationality, there are country specific dating site. I will mention the most popular in South East Asia.

Thai Cupid – It is the biggest dating site in Thailand with thousand of women looking for romance, relationship and a night stand. You can find girls online anytime to chat with. The chat is easy to use and you can talk with multiple girls at the same time because Thai women write very slow because sometime they have to check the dictionary for words. This can maximize your time and effort to create multiple “relationships” at the same time.

Filipino Cupid – I have used Filipino Cupid for years to meet local women in Manila and Cebu (my favorite destinations). You will find thousands of girls eager to meet you.

Vietnam Cupid – If you are planning to visit Vietnam and meet with these beautiful women, this dating site will open the door to thousand of single women.

The above dating sites have the same interface and are very easy to use. Just make up your mind about the nationality you would to meet, and let’s move to sign up.

How to Create a Profile That Rocks

I will use AsianDating.com as sample, however the process is similar for the other dating websites.

1) Create a Free Profile

The process is standard, just add your real name, sex, age and email address, alternatively sign in with your Facebook account.

Use your real age, do not cheat on your age. Being 50 years old is really not a problem, being ashamed of it is. People think that a few years less will help to attract younger female. Wrong! Going back to the previous point, Asian women like and respect older men. Second, lying will not help you to build an honest relationship with any women.

2) Increase Your Chances to Meet Attractive Women

Now that you are subscribe, save your email address and password for your future log in. The second form is about to describe yourself (by the way: you can change all these information later, if you want to). This is the first chance to separate yourself from the crowd. Most guys overlook this stage and rush to look for girls. I have red many men’s profiles over the years and 90% of them are getting this part wrong. Don’t be one of them!

Marital Status: All the options will work fine except for “Married”. Asian women are well aware of the fact that many guys already married travel to Asia and just want to have a good time. Most of the girls are looking for a serious relationship, and a married man can’t provide this.

Conclusion: If you are indeed married – don’t mention it. In fact I would put in “Single or divorced” no matter what.

Occupation: All options work well except for “Non-occupation”. Women don’t like losers. In Asia, your occupation will not matter much as for example in America where women target men based on their career = money.

Willing to relocate: Choose “Not sure about relocating” even if you are not willing to relocate. The search algorithm favor this option offering a wider target of women. Anyway, one day you might decide to make the move to go live abroad, you don’t know that yet, just keep the possibility open.

The next three points are the most important one and required a bit of effort from your side. While we don’t care if a beautiful girl is not putting much energy in it, girls are caring about your description.

3) Make Her to Choose You

If you leave these three fields empty or just with the minimum info required, you will miss out to attract the best women online. There are plenty of paying members with “zombie” profiles, don’t waste your chances.

Your profile heading: So, what headline is most likely to get the attention?

The engagement start from the headline, and if the girl get curios enough to click your headline to read more about you, you are into the game.

If you leave this part empty, the software will write a an “hi” and there are thousands of account with a simple “Hi”. Other famous headlines read something like this: “Searching for a girlfriend”, “Looking for love”, “Are you the one?”, “I’m a gentleman”… all flecky head lines, but there is more “Just want to have good time”, “Let’s meet tonight”, etc.

Now, put yourself in her shoes. Would you ever click on these profiles? Maybe not, so what make you think that with such poor headline you will succeed online dating?

I have a good starting point for you. Headlines as questions are always good as we like to know the answers or want to answer them ourselfs.

My current headline for example is “Should I go Bangkok or Phuket?”. In my profile I continue to explain that I’m planning to live in Thailand and these two destinations are possible town to live in.

This headline alone got me tons of mails without me doing one single thing. Get the girls interested to help you out and why not, meet you. Asian women love to meet first time travelers, so they have got more chances to hook you. Most girls wrote me “Come to Bangkok instead, so we can meet”. How cool is that?

Now it is up to you to come up with a good headline suitable to your situation.

You can change headline every week and see what work best

Read more; How to create headline for online dating websites that rocks

She is Yours; Close The Deal

Dating Asian women - talk about yourself for dating Asian women

Your headline is solid, which made her want to read more. So, what next? Now it is time to tell more about yourself.

This part is funny, because most men talk about themselves, and I can’t blame them, the line is clear “talk about yourself”. But here the reality.

At this stage nobody really cares about you. Yeah, this is the hard truth. So, writing about your sport achievements or love for pussy cats, it isn’t going to break it throw with her.

Your goal here is to not sound like a pervert or a desperate man (which alone will separate you from 80% of the other male users) and give her a chance to connect with you.

A little bit about yourself: This is the section appeared whenever someone clicks on your profile. This sentence is very important because she will decide to contact you or not.

The possibility to write here are endless, but keep it sharp and to the essential, 3-4 sentences will do. I connect the text with my headline to make it as a flow. In my case, I just wrote about my plans to move to Thailand and what I would like to do in my free time. I’m creating a connection, and if she into my same interests, she will think; “Cool, I love wine too and would be nice to go for a dinner with him, plus he is coming to live here, so I might get out something more from him than the usual tourist”. But, at the same time I’m making clear that I’m a busy person and I’m looking for serious women, not time waster.

You are the prize not her! And this help me to bang her on my first date. No time waster.

Check out what other male are writing in their profiles, and just write the opposite. Do you really want to be another of the profiles which state “I am looking for a girl that I can grow old with” or “Just checking this site out”. Dare to be different.

What you’re looking for in a partner: Just keep it simple and honest. She must be beautiful. Of course, they all feel beautiful and they are going to challenge me. I receive lot of replies about it and sometime are funny too; “Am I beautiful enough for you”

I love it!

WELL DONE! Now You Are an Official Member

There are two remaining steps that keep you apart from hundreds of attractive and love caring Asian women.

A) You need to upload at least three pictures of yourself. First, a portrait of you where you are shaved, look smart and clean.

Second, a picture with your family. Asian women value family at the highest and you will look like an excellent man doing this (no other men does it, so you stand out). The third picture should be you with friend in a social setting, no drunk please. This show that you are a social person and because you have got many friends, you must be a good person. This is how Asian women think.

Use Facebook pictures that got you the most liked

B) Secondly you have to turn your standard account into a premium account. Otherwise all your work so far will be useless.

Premium accounts set you on the TOP search list and allow you to write and read the messages from other users.

You will have to pay a little bit for it but it is really worth it. You will connect with hundreds of beautiful girls and with my tips, you will succeed in meet beautiful and honest girls, not the usual bar girls.

Everyday day there are literally hundred of new women joining the site (that is why I recommend the 12-month package, as you will get much more bang for your bucks).

I recommend to buy a webcam for your Pc and connect with Skype, so you can chat with each other live. If you aren’t a tech guy, no worries, learn how to set yourself for webcam chat in simple steps.

So believe me: if you don’t behave like a total retard (more on this later) I can assure you that you will get your moneys worth and so many girls that you will not be able to keep in up with conversation.