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3 Best Dating Sites To Meet Indonesian Girls Online

Indonesian girls are a kinda of more reserved compare to Thais and Filipinas, while the nightlife scene isn’t as open as in other South East Asian countries.

hot indonesian girls met on dating sites online

The good thing is those Indonesian girls are very eager to meet you. The only problem is they don’t feel comfortable talking in public places or in the presence of their friends if don’t know you very well.

It’s a cultural thing.

Also, the ladies are not so direct in expressing their feelings. Don’t expect a traditional Indonesian girl to kiss you in public, sort of.

So if you’re planning to visit Indonesia hoping to pick up girls in malls, clubs or street with the same ease as in Thailand or the Philippines, then you are setting up yourself for failure.

I don’t doubt you know this already but it bears repeating: Indonesia is a Muslim country.

Approaching Indonesian girls is usually done “conservatively” while any sign of affection or touching is “strictly” behind closed doors. It might sound intimidating at first, but let me tell you that is an intriguing experience to do things that are TABOO.

Indonesia girls online looking for foreign men

Finally, there’s an answer for the solo traveler. It’s simple, it’s convenient and it works. It all comes down to this: meet hundreds of girls behind “closed doors” on the handful Indonesian dating websites.

So, today, I’m reviewing the 3 best Indonesian dating sites to meet girls genuinely interested in foreign men for either a long term relationship or a night stand.

Yes, there are working and non-working girls on these sites. In my experience, most girls are looking for a serious relationship, but if you’re a man traveling for business or only pleasure, you can find girls for short rental.

Before getting started, a word of caution: “Like in any other parts of the world, the dating scene in Indonesia has scammers and gold diggers in the mix.”

But don’t let this hold you back. While there are few “bad” members, there are far more good minded girls looking for a genuine relationship. The truth is, there are some absolutely wonderful girls out there.

The only question is: “Are you serious enough?”

Don’t get me wrong. Most men give up to the first try. If you’re looking for a good Indonesian girl, you’ll need to be patient. The secret here is just to take your time and not to rush a meeting.

Without further ado, let’s explore the 3 best dating sites in Indonesia that will help you find true love (or anything else, for that matter

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Indonesia Cupid

www.indonesiancupid.com

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Indonesian Cupid is my favorite dating site because is an excellent balance between quantity of members, quality, and affordability. You can chat with girls 24/7. There are always a few hundred girls online anytime I log in; yesterday at 7pm there were 522 women online.

You can filter the girls by location which is convenient if you have already plan your holiday in a particular destination in Indonesia.

Some girl speaks better English than others, but in general is good practice to use unsophisticated phrases or concepts. Keep it simple and sweet.

I’ve found easier to speak instead of writing, so might be a good idea buy a microphone to chat instead of writing. Having said that, however, you’ll be surprised to meet many educated girls working professional jobs such lawyer, accountant or secretary with excellent English language knowledge.

If you would like to meet university girls, there are a good number of girls looking to improve their English if you don’t mind be a teacher.

Here my story. I once met a student from Bandung that wanted practice English with a foreigner for her business administration degree. Very cute, small body and a lovely attitude. We become friends and eventually, I went for a week long holiday around West Java with her. She was so happy to practice her English with me, and I was so happy to teach her all the good and bad things.

A WIN-WIN situation.

Who is behind this site?

CupidMedia Group who owns a broad range of niche websites focus on dating. In my opinion, this is the most professional Indonesian dating site out there, with an emphasis in detecting fake or scam users. The platform is robust, friendly and easy to use.

They have got a translation service with their Gold package (US$24.99 per month) that can be handy if your English isn’t so great or you prefer speak Indonesian with village girls. For higher search rankings and video messaging capability go Platinum for US$29.99 so you can jump ahead of the pack.

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Date In Asia

www.dateinasia.com

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This site is popular in Asia, not particularly target to Indonesia so don’t expect as many girls as on IndonesiaCupid.

It’s easy to navigate, use and you can meet a wide range of girls of any age. This site doesn’t have a detention system for scammers, so follow your guts when scanning the profiles. Just ask yourself: “Is it too good to be truth?”

This site being free don’t offer the privilege to rank your profile higher in the search ranking, so you need to work harder in attracting the “right” girls. Get used spending a lot of time in weeding low-quality profiles.

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Badoo

www.badoo.com

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Badoo isn’t a dating site but a social network. It’s a kinda of Facebook where people hang around to meet friends. It works best when you’re are already in Indonesia because you can install the application on your phone and search for girls nearby.

Only a small percentage of people on Badoo are there for dating, but instead looking for friendship. And here is where things get complicated. You never know if the girls you’re chatting with are open to a relationship or just want to make friends.

Look, it’s nice to meet new people, but did you travel all the way to Indonesia to make friends?

If you’re planning to spend few months in Indonesia, Badoo is a great tool to meet girls with similar interests. There’s always the potential for flirting or dating along the way. Anyway, nothing wrong trying it out.

The functions are very good for a free member, you can send text messages to a small number of people every day. Paid members can get access to more profiles.

Beautiful girl on Indonesian dating sites

My Thoughts About Indonesian Dating Sites

If you’re looking for quality girls in Indonesia, online dating is by far the simpler and best way to go.

Overall, 60% of the girls are looking for serious relationship. Another 30% is looking for a night stand or let’s say having a discrete adventure with a foreigner just for FUN. And maybe less than 10% is looking for money and a SugarDaddy.

Depending on which dating site or application you use, you can pretty much chat with any type of women you could think of:

Students
Office girls
Single moms
Ethnicity or religion.

I wish you all the best in searching your dream Indonesian lady. There are so many beautiful and willing out there.

Are Filipino Dating Sites Right For You? | Scam Myths | Filipino Girls

I’ve heard all kinds of myths, theories and fabrications about Filipino dating sites.

Some people seem to think only hookers, scammers and easy women go there. Others believe that only goody-two-shoes hang around.

Personally, though, I’ve used all the Filipino dating apps and sites out there… Gotten dozens of lays and multiple girlfriends online… And found the following to be true:

10% of the profiles belong to scammers.
40% belong to working girls who charge for sex.
50% are regular girls looking for a man. This includes all sorts of girls, from Christian, family-oriented ladies to thrill-seeking party-chicks looking for an affair.

Now, the scammers are who you want to avoid – and in a minute, I’ll tell you how to do just that.

For the moment, though, focus on what I’m about to say… Because if you know where to look, you can find the perfect girl for you on the right Filipino dating website.

Regular filipino women wanting to date foreign men

What You Can Find Online In The Philippines

If you’re looking for a good girl who wants a man to love, cherish and pamper, going online is your best choice. The reason is “good girls” try to distance themselves from the hordes of sex-hungry tourists visiting their country.

If you’re looking for casual sex, you’ll find plenty of young women curious to try sex with a foreigner – and line up as many dates and one-night stands as you want.

I met and dated mostly girls in their twenties, eager to experience an affair without commitment. I like to be FREE.

However, there are been several emotional moments. You get to know her, spend a great time together while doing the bad and good things.

Still, I’ve to move on…

Keep in mind that Filipino women are very emotional. They can fall in love with you quickly. So, be clear in advance your intention, what you expect and how is going to be.

The clearer you are… the better.

Lastly, if you’re looking for a no-strings-attached, pay-for-play sex, there are a good amount of freelancers on dating sites. Happy to meet you during your next holiday to the Philippines. Some are happy to get a FREE trip while spending time with you, others charge as tourist guides with the difference that you can sleep with them.

Working girls on dating sites are far better looking, cleaner and overall offer a better value for money than girls working in bars and red light district brothels.

Working - bar - good girls in the Philippine met online dating sites

The only question is, what is it that you want – and is looking for it online, realistic?

In this article, I’ll help you figure out the answer to this question by going over what really happen on Filipino dating websites – and the one thing you will not find there, no matter how hard you look.

Let’s start by looking at:

~ Good Girls Looking For A Relationship ~

This is possibly the most numerous kind of girl in the Philippines: the regular, girl-next-door type looking for a relationship… Preferably with a foreigner.

But, why a foreigner?

First reason is that Filipino women view people from abroad as inherently superior to themselves. There’s a strong colonial mentality in the Philippines, and young Pinay women view men – young or old – as exotic, mysterious and sexy.

Second reason is that Filipino men are anecdotally viewed as unfaithful, selfish, low-brow and prone to bad habits like gambling and alcoholism.

This is repulsive to Filipino women (actually, any women) who are raised conservatively.

Third, you look like an exotic prince, a common Asian female fantasy. Filipinas are no exception.

What does all of this mean?

In a nutshell, it means that if you want a good girl to date, you’ll find her. Unlike the average Western woman, who is excited by “bad boy” types and “emotionally dramatic”, Filipino women just want stability with a decent man.

Filipino women love good guys instead western women like bad boys

Because, at the end of the day, they are Christian while having Western family ideals but without the feminist malaise plaguing Europe, Australia and America.

Of course, this doesn’t mean you can’t find a lot of…

~ One Night Stand Filipino Girls ~

Like I said above, Filipino girls find Westerners very attractive. As a result, even those that would never marry a foreigner, want at least experience a night of casual sex with a guy from abroad.

I could go through all the reasons for why they fantasize about us, from our comparatively large penis (Filipinos have an average penis size of only 4.3 inches, which is among the world’s smallest) to our white skin.

But I won’t, because the point is; lots of young Filipino girls want nothing more than a “safe” and discrete sexual experience with a foreigner.

Many of these types of girls would die of embarrassment if they were seen by friends or relatives with you – so they go on dating websites to find the naughty, kinky sex they want.

And here’s a little secret…

Lots of these girls don’t know if they’ll get another chance with a guy from abroad – so they treat each and every sexual experience like it’s their last one. Meaning, they’ll do all kinds of things they’d never try with a regular boyfriend or husband.

Filipino girls have hot fantasies and up for anything

It’s your duty, to help those young girls to satisfy their HOT fantasies

~ Working Girls (Freelancers) ~

Like every respectful Asian country, the Philippines has its fair share of working girls; maybe even more than average, considering parts of the country are poor.

Obviously, the hottest and brightest of these would never take to city sidewalks or red light district brothels to drum up business.

What do they do, instead?

They go online.

This means the hottest, kinkiest and brightest girls are what you’ll find on dating sites.

Whereas most bar girls (80%) are either too frigid, too old or too plain – which is why they need the bar to get customers.

I always tell my friends the same thing I’m telling you now: “if you want the finest pay-for-play females, online is the way to go!”

Which Site for Which Kind of Girl?

Now, for the most important part…

WHERE can you find these girls – and HOW do you avoid the one thing you DON’T want: scammers?

Glad you asked, my friend!

Your friend Rocco is about to give you the blow-by-blow on the Philippines’ 2 main dating websites – and the kinds of women who visit them:

Filipino Cupid – the largest website. It’s got plenty of good girls, one night stand girls and working girls. There’s a lot of screening for scammers, so this is a good place for beginners.

Pina Love – lots of good girls and one night stand girls; not quite as many working girls as F.C. Recommended if you’re looking for real affection, and mature women. Screen for scammers.

My general advice is that you start at the top of the list, working your way down once you feel a little more confident about differentiating good girls from bad girls from workers from scammers.

First and foremost, though, use your common sense when having fun out there! You’ll be just fine.

Sunday, February 12, 2017